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It seems some men don't ever date? I mean they seem like perfectly regular dudes, do they even try?
Personally, I've just given up on it. The amount of effort required is just so high and the reward is almost always less than nothing. Meanwhile, women don't seem to put in any effort at all (besides looking good), and then they complain when the guys they chose end up being terrible.
Men and women have different mating strategies. For women, reproduction involves a lot of costs and limitations. A woman can only produce one child per year or so; with the baby growing inside her she needs to consume additional resources; and there's even risk of her death, especially at birth. While men have virtually no limitations, costs or risks.
There's less need for men to be selective, instead it can be a good strategy to simply "spread their seeds". But women have evolved to be very selective and they have an incentive to delay mating until she's found "the best she can get". This is why men have to put in the effort and prove themselves, which they do, all the time, to all women.
In the modern world, the number of mates women have "access" to probably leads to choice overload and unfortunately ruins the mating process for both genders.